They both seem to like playing with me and I like playing with them so we will try to work their issues out. Since we are doing covers, dance stuff for mostly private functions and not jam band stuff I am not sure how the Phish method would really help. We have no problem grooving and jamming when we are cutting loose. I think it's mainly that the bassist wants to get the parts exactly right and the drummer and I are content so long as it sounds good and captures the feel of the song. What would playing in bands be without a little band drama. lol