Thats like me saying I hate traffic after living in Wyoming for six years.
You still dont really make a clear point. Unless you have literally an entire trail to yourself, you are skiing somewhat defensively already. It seems we agree on this.
Just having other people on the trail meaning you being uncomfortable, Id say thats more a psychological problem than a crowding problem. Outside of holiday periods its just not an issue for the most part.
I'll back up JR on this. Having skied Magic regularly for a few years now, it's tough to go back to a place where the trails are crowded. Frankly, it can be unsettling when you're not used to it. For years I was very used to skiing crowded trails (i.e. Mt Snow/Killington, etc on weekends) & you learn how to deal & can eventually find a way to navigate away from crowds. Skiing the trees certainly helps, although even sometimes those were crowded if the snow was good (again, on weekends). I skied once @ Killington last season on a weekend & ended up in the bar for half the day. Granted, the conditions weren't great on top of the crowds, but the crowds were overwhelming. I'll gladly accept a few bare spots/thin cover/fewer trails for more trails that are stacked with skiers/riders. I guess it's just what you get used to