I did not see too many replies from the women. I think that a "person" who does not immediately recognize a good "person" probably has some issues that a nice "person" should avoid. Nice people don't finish last they finish first. You have not met the right gal for you yet. Good things come to those who wait. I was young once, married a guy who almost killed me by running me over with his car. He was a "bad boy" and I definitely had some growing up to do issues. 20 years later I met the most wonderful man who thinks that I am just as wonderful. Not that we don't have our occasional differences....I wouldn't trade my nice guy for all the tea in....Boston.