dont get married folks a message from the experienced....

[Brownsville Brooklyn]

i post this on behalf of all my buds who got married & divorced....they have a message, everyone of them says the same thing....DONT DO IT!! since the great weather started in march i have been hanging on the deck at my beloved www.restaurantprime.com from 5pm on & meeting lots of folks & its the same thing over & over....it seems to be a 10-15 yr cycle & then things fall apart....again this is a message from these folks to everyone out there....im just the messenger....now lets see if i can fall back asleep after passing out at 11pm:smile::smile:

 

[WakeboardMom]

Please don't speak on my behalf.

 

[andrec10]

Mine either!

 

[deadheadskier]

plus 3

happily married here

 

[campgottagopee]

married and dig it---i gots the best girl in the world---PERIOD

 

[gorgonzola]

a good marriage is the bomb... now kids on the other hand..... :???:

the way the past week has rolled the nest can't empty soon enough!

btw - this is a (somewaht) sarcastic post

 

[dmc]

Eat drink and remarry

 

[SkiDork]

the reason for this attitude is nobody wants to endure hard times these days. It either works or they're gone. Pain is not to be tolerated. There WILL be hard times in a marriage.

Eric - where would you have been if your parents had this attitude?

 

[thetrailboss]

the reason for this attitude is nobody wants to endure hard times these days. It either works or they're gone. Pain is not to be tolerated. There WILL be hard times in a marriage.

Eric - where would you have been if your parents had this attitude?

+ 1. Have to agree on this. We live in an age of instant gratification. Three years ago I walked out on my ex who was having an affair. Thank God we did not get married. Now I am with someone who really has a different outlook on life and relationships.

 

[WakeboardMom]

the reason for this attitude is nobody wants to endure hard times these days. It either works or they're gone. Pain is not to be tolerated. There WILL be hard times in a marriage.

Eric - where would you have been if your parents had this attitude?

Oh, man, Dork, after I posted earlier this morning I had these same thoughts. Eric seems to have an awesome example of how wonderful marriage can be right in front of his eyes.

And yes, it's work. There will be hard times, there will be mistakes made, but in the end (most of the time) it's well worth the effort. Lack of selfishness, or getting beyond selfish, self-centered attitudes is key. Based on his postings, I'm not sure Eric is ready for that kind of life.

a good marriage is the bomb... now kids on the other hand..... :???:

the way the past week has rolled the nest can't empty soon enough!

btw - this is a (somewaht) sarcastic post

I LOVE my kids and enjoyed everything we did together, but empty nest is now the bomb!!

 

[powpig2002]

had a patrol director said he loved being married. was on his like 4th one.

 

[Warp Daddy]

MARRIAGE TO THE RIGHT PERSON IS the single most important element in my life .The joy , contentment and fulfillment of one's true potential is often accellerated when one is blessed with a wonderful partner who supports and complements your personality and communication style .

I agree that today too many expect all things to go well all the time and TV has inculcated an unrealistic expectation that 1. Lust =Love , 2. All problems are solved in 59 minutes or less . 3.. Don't stick around to do the work of working things out . and last but not least the god almighty number 4

Lets all be Opera singers 24/7 -------------u know Me Mem Me -- its ALL about Me

 

[wa-loaf]

I wouldn't mind if my wife was still alive.

 

[Marc]

i post this on behalf of all my buds who got married & divorced....they have a message, everyone of them says the same thing....DONT DO IT!! since the great weather started in march i have been hanging on the deck at my beloved www.restaurantprime.com from 5pm on & meeting lots of folks & its the same thing over & over....it seems to be a 10-15 yr cycle & then things fall apart....again this is a message from these folks to everyone out there....im just the messenger....now lets see if i can fall back asleep after passing out at 11pm:smile::smile:

You have stupid friends.

 

[ctenidae]

MArried and happy about it. Las thting I'd want to do is have to start dating agian. Ugh.

 

[Marc]

MArried and happy about it. Las thting I'd want to do is have to start dating agian. Ugh.

Sucks getting laid all the time, amirite?

 

[dmc]

Las thting I'd want to do is have to start dating agian. Ugh.

I guess the lure of some "strange" doesn't get you psyched..

 

[deadheadskier]

I guess the lure of some "strange" doesn't get you psyched..

 

[ctenidae]

I guess the lure of some "strange" doesn't get you psyched..

The lure, sure. The reality, not so much.

Sucks getting laid all the time, amirite?

I swear. Always having the possibility of morning sex, or shower sex, or afternoon sex, or hey, we're in the basement sex, or no one can see in the back yard sex is nice.

 

[dmc]

The lure, sure. The reality, not so much

yeah - reality... I'd never stray from my girl either... I also would never stand for it the other direction..
When I found out my ex wife was cheating on me before we parted - it made me feel better somehow... Cause - i would've dumped her if I'd known...