Just make the guy disappear, then deal with the details later...
Seriously, sounds like a crappy situation Marc. I hope everything works out ok..
Seriously, sounds like a crappy situation Marc. I hope everything works out ok..
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BeanoNYC
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Local cops have access to that information. You got to pull out all the stops on this one Marc.
Warp Daddy
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Marc : I 'm probably older than Your parents and can appreciate your desire NOT to uneccessarily spook them, however BELIEVE me --- be a good son,,, they NEED to KNOW
This situation has the potential for generating a serious outcome . Use whatever means are at your disposal to garner as much info as possible BUT DO NOT DELAY these cretins are powderkegs that do not require much tinder to go off
Good luck- let your law enforcement contacts KNOW of your concerns and by all means use your uncles contacts -- the TIGRESS is right on target
This situation has the potential for generating a serious outcome . Use whatever means are at your disposal to garner as much info as possible BUT DO NOT DELAY these cretins are powderkegs that do not require much tinder to go off
Good luck- let your law enforcement contacts KNOW of your concerns and by all means use your uncles contacts -- the TIGRESS is right on target
gorgonzola
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I use e-renter.com to screen potential tenants, not free - its like $20, but pretty comprehensive
Marc
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I considered doing that. Maybe I should just copy my sister on the email I send to my parents.
Trekchick
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I agree with this wholeheartedly.
I don't want to post my testimonial on public forum, but believe me, criminal records are vital. My baby sister is alive today because my mom pushed beyond the normal police procedures and pulled in favors from a police officer friend.
Marc
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I'm text messaging my sister in OK right now... trying to break this to her gently. Sonuvabitch, I got a million things to do at work and I gotta deal with this crap. I swear I'm adopted and was meant to be an only child.
Hopefully she doesn't mention it to the potential psychopath, things could get ugly quick if she does...
Marc
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She's in Oklahoma, he's not. What do you think I'm an idiot?
Marc
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On second thought, don't answer that question.
Trekchick
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You're a good brother. I'll keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
I figured that part out, but there are these things called phones that she could use to call him. if the dude really is nutty there's no telling what he may do upon being found out...
Trekchick
Active member
I agree with this. In the days of technology its not hard for a corrupt mind to spread evil.
Marc
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I know her well enough to know she wouldn't call him right away.
But it turns out it doesn't matter. She now tells me she knows all this about him, she met him through clients of hers that she trusts, and they told her everything up front, and that there's more to the story than what's in the court records.
WTF. I wish I was an only child.
But it turns out it doesn't matter. She now tells me she knows all this about him, she met him through clients of hers that she trusts, and they told her everything up front, and that there's more to the story than what's in the court records.
WTF. I wish I was an only child.
The plot thickens... You've done your part Marc, hopefully everything turns out ok.
come on its your sister. 39 bucks is not going to break the bank. Can you post the results when you are done
Marc
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Please see updates to the thread.
And so you know, it's not spending the money that concerned me, it was the fact that they were charging to begin with. It immediately makes me question the reliability of such a service.
Tell her you did some searching and he has aids. My sister is trusting enough to take someone for their word. I dont care what the other side of a story is, a person that lays a hand on a women(other than another women) Can not be trusted EVER
Marc
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Ew... def. not getting into that side of the relationship. The thing is, she's knows her clients very well, and they've known him for five years. And the clients have a small child of their own (whom my sister teaches horse back riding). It's all such a wierd situation.
I'd be very inclined to agree with you, that any guy who touches a women in a violet way can never be trusted. But I don't know the whole story. I do I know he wasn't involved with some crazy bitch who he faught off in self defense but she had a good lawyer and got the restraining order on him?
What the fark. I keep trying to wish this away. It's not working in case anyone's wondering. That's making me even more mad.
Trekchick
Active member
Don't be mad, be concerned.
You are a good brother. Hold that truth and do what you can. Let go of what you can't.
