Your right. I am sorry I did simplify greatly on what were saying. You have provided data and numbers that are all very thought out. You have made a hypothesis, supported it with fact and came up with a reasoned conclusion. But, for me on this particular situation it is simple. If there is a chance I could either die or infect the ones I love that is enough of a reason. I've seen what can happen. I could not live with the prospect of killing someone I love because I was either reckless or thought I was low risk or what ever. killing myself skiing or biking or doing dangerous shit is my choice. It is just me. This thing kills others and shitty part is you just don't know. I hope you live safe and clean for a long time and proove me wrong but I really feel the odds are changing, even as we speak. This coming fall and winter will define everything as we go forward. We will see.
No worries. I have no idea when I'll feel comfortable seeing my parents again. Selfishly it would be great news if it turns out they got it and beat it a few months ago, but we'll see. That said, my wife has a few family members in the 80+ cohort, which will be especially tough to navigate.
My guess is we'll get back to a "new normal" which will include lots of masks, wider distancing and lots of sanitation sooner rather than later. Hopefully, it doesn't blow up in our collective faces.
Stay strong. Again, you have my condolences. What you experienced is tragedy.