If I do eat on-mountain, it would be at CR Pub, Wunderbar, etc. The food at those places is pretty good. Cafeteria food is cafeteria food and there would have to be no other options open for me to go eat in one of the cafeterias in the lodges.
In the East, Spruce Peak at Stowe is a definite exception. Their cafeteria food is better than just about any ski area sit down restaurant in the area. Worth the premium they charge.