WakeboardMom
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I hope he decides to.. and succeeds. I've never smoked, not once. Don't ever plan to either - not after watching my grandmother waste away as a vegetable for 4 years in a nursing home after a major stroke took everything but her last breath. The docs said the endless chain of cigarettes was a big contributor. But what struck me more than that is she still craved a puff and begged my grandfather to light them up for her and hold those filthy things to her lips. Here she was totally paralyzed and half brain dead, couldn't remember who or where she was, and yet she still craved the nicotine. Nope, I'll never start. Ever.
My wife quit two weeks before our first date in February of 1998 and hasn't touched one since. I'm so proud of her. She's been through a lot (medically) in the last 12 years and if anyone deserves to light one up to forget her worries for a bit, it's her. But she's stayed smoke free through it all.
Thank you. Me, too.
My parents smoked; my mom quit cold turkey my senior year of high school (I'm the oldest of 5), but my dad's story was similar to your grandmother's. Major heart attack at the age 55; a couple of years later quadruple bypass; bouts of pneumonia...he never quit, but he didn't think anyone knew. It was throat cancer that eventually killed him. That was attributed to alcohol, not the cigarettes.
Looking back, I can't believe I married a smoker. I hate it. Thank God he quit. My kids don't really remember that, although we have some videos that show him with a cigarette when they were really little.
Yay for your wife! I hope the same for my son. : )