Yes, agreed. The thing that's bugging me is the asymmetry in the costs. The real-estate investor has direct costs that the market-investor does not. The market-investor has opportunity costs that the real-estate investor does not. I think the better way to characterize the difference is that homeownership allows the leveraged real-estate investor to invest additional assets in the home. The market-investor, on the other hand, cannot invest additional assets in the market because he has rent to pay. So the superior return of the leveraged real-estate investor is attributable in large part to these additional investments, rather than the superior performance of the real-estate market vis-a-vis the stock market.Because over 60 percent of real estate in the entire country, and notably for the vast majority of people that really need to generate the most wealth possible (aka not the trust finders), has a mortgage. Furthermore, everyone pays taxes, insurance and general maintenance. Whether you rent or own you are paying those costs.
Obviously there is nuance to this, and of course there are outliers like the screaming rent deal from your uncle or whatever, but let’s just agree that isn’t the norm.