• Welcome to AlpineZone, the largest online community of skiers and snowboarders in the Northeast!

    You may have to REGISTER before you can post. Registering is FREE, gets rid of the majority of advertisements, and lets you participate in giveaways and other AlpineZone events!

Sorry To Hear

Geoff

Well-known member
Joined
Jun 30, 2004
Messages
5,100
Points
48
Location
South Dartmouth, Ma
+1. Life would be a lot better if people just took ownership when they goofed up.

I've found that professionally, it completely defuses tense situations when I take the blame for something even when there is plenty to spread around. In disasters, I'll often open with "I F-ed up. I should have anticipated that and changed our direction before the mushroom cloud hit." Since it's tense and everybody else is starting from a CYA position, it gets things moving in the proper direction.
 

ctenidae

Active member
Joined
Nov 11, 2004
Messages
8,959
Points
38
Location
SW Connecticut
Everytime I call verizon about a problem the first thing they say is "I'm sorry you're having a problem with xyz. Let me help you". That is clearly scripted and gratuitous.

I usually follow that with, "No, you're not sorry, and that's okay- if I weren't having this problem, you wouldn't have a job, so it's okay. Let's just fix it." Works well to avoid the gratuitous social engineering scripted palliatives designed to sooth people who have gotten themselves all worked up over a problem they probably created themselves.

I particularly hate it when phone center people use the word "excellent" many times, since htey are obviously rated in teh after-call surveys by how many "excellents" they get and are really just trying to plant the word in your head.

All that said, IMO, worst job in the world = phone center.
 

WakeboardMom

New member
Joined
Sep 24, 2009
Messages
699
Points
0
I've found that professionally, it completely defuses tense situations when I take the blame for something even when there is plenty to spread around. In disasters, I'll often open with "I F-ed up. I should have anticipated that and changed our direction before the mushroom cloud hit." Since it's tense and everybody else is starting from a CYA position, it gets things moving in the proper direction.

That preemptive strike also works well with customers. "We f-d up and this is what we're doing to fix it."
 
Top