Interesting!dont want one!
i really really like doing this alone. i catch up on my podcasts each week in the car, i listen to my music all weekend while skiing. i watch whatever movie i want to watch that my fiance doesnt care about at the hotel. i get to go to bed at 8:30 and wake up at 5:30, and not have to deal with anyone else's needs and wants. i dont have to wait for anyone. i dont have to consider anyone who cant ski at my level. i dont have to stop for lunch (eww). this is the thing in life i do for me and i do it without any compromise whatsoever.
and also the full solo developed over years. ski buddy #1 moved to denver to be a hospitalist. ski buddy #2 moved to albany, had kids, and decided to switch from skilled snowboarder to novice skier - we see each other on the mountain for 2 min and no longer travel together. ski buddy #3 moved to deep jersey suburbs and had TWO KIDS. he just doesnt ski anymore. ski buddy #4 lives in bozeman now. ski buddy #5 in seatle. great people to visit!
its all good. i really like the solitude of my skiing. i tend to see buddy 1 and buddy 4 on my western trips most years. ive skied crystal and stevens and alpental with #5. another best friend is a low intermediate but lives in denver and he joined me at a-basin and copperr last feb (could not wait to be rid of him honestly he held me back a lot)
a super casual snowboarder friend texted me like 2 weeks ago said 'when are you going skiing, i want to go with you'. i replied 'buddy i go every weekend. just show up at my apartment at 4:45 PM on a friday with your shit, and tell me in advance so i book 2 beds". he didnt reply
a female friend who moved back to nyc from california bought an ikon and has been trying to get me to plan with her and i demur. i am steering her to killington this weekend tho. she doesnt wanna hear it that it will be crowded "base pass is blacked out". i said ok dana, maybe try pico.
I am another committed solo skier for many of the same reasons as you. I'm guessing I'm probably twice your age and finding people my age to ski with at my pace is getting tough. Like you I don't like to have to deal with slowing down for others or dealing with alternative agendas. I also don't like skiing with folks (mostly way younger than me, such as yourself) who are just faster than me. Trying to keep up with others just wrecks the vibe for me.