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the lost boy

skiprob

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Yesterday I was at Stratton with my three kids (11, 9 and 5). Mom was cleaning the house after being away for much of the week and, hopefully, resting some too.

After arguing with his big brother about what way to get to the Ursa chair from the top of the AMEX chair, the middle kid skis off in a huff. I turned away briefly to attend to our youngest and he was gone.

So, the rest of us proceed to the Ursa chair and we cannot find him. We figured he would have beat us but we give him a couple minutes and he doesn't show. We wait a few more minutes.

It is amazing what goes through your head during these few minutes...
  • "Boy am I angry with him! He knows better than to ski away from us"
  • "Should I beat him when I get my hands on him?"
  • "We had a plan. We said to meet at the bottom of the gondola if we get separated."
  • "He's pretty smart. He's in the accelerated group at school. He'll remember the plan."
    [*]"Oh no, he's in the accelerated group at school. He doesn't remember anything."​
  • "Ohhh, he really likes to ski along the side of the trails and in the trees. He might have taken a shortcut… and hurt himself."
  • "I wonder what his mother will say?"
  • "Let's just say a little prayer while we are going down to the meeting area."
    [*]"Please god, don't let my wife find out I lost one of her kids!"​

We get down to the gondola and we don't see him. I figure I'll check with guest services about this sort of thing. I tell my other two kids to wait there for him. I give them money for waffles.

The woman at guest services asks, "How long has he been gone?" That is when I realize that it has only been a couple minutes. In my head I am realizing her point, that sooner or later, the odds are he will show up somewhere. So I reply, "He has been gone longer than I want him to be."

She was very kind and started making calls when all three of my kids walked in.

I was quite proud of my brave young man. His eyes sure were big.

I asked him what happened and he said he couldn't find the Ursa chair. So he asked someone at the mid station lodge. They told him how to get there. He went to the Ursa chair and waited and figured we went down to the meeting point. I asked how he found the main lodge from the mid station and he said, "I read the signs for the main lodge."

So he asks me, "What were Ben and Emily doing in the line at the Waffle Haus? Were you getting waffles without me?"

I couldn't imagine what it would be like to have to wait for an extended period of time. There really is no way they can send people out to look for a lost kid and even if they could, they would not be able to find him/her. They suggested the sign boards at the lifts. The public address system? Every time I hear it at any ski area the first thing I think was I didn't hear what they said.

In the end, keeping my cool and trusting my kids paid off.

We continued to ski for the rest of the day.

Speaking of waffles, there was a thread about the waffles at the waffle haus. The secret is pearled sugar. It is coarsely ground and mixed into the batter. When it is cooked it becomes carmelized and that makes for a nice and crispy exterior. You have to really watch the waffle iron. It'll turn to carbon if it cooks too long. Google pearled sugar for some recipes. One of them uses real butter in the batter too. Mmmmmmmm.
 

shwilly

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Scary! I'm glad you met back up quickly, and that he was undeterred in his fight against waffle injustice.

I have had some nervous moments while waiting for friends to show back up. I'm sure it's much worse when it's your child.
 

MRGisevil

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:-? I'm never having kids... I get anxious enough when my dog doesn't come inside after the first time I call him :-?
 

Grassi21

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:-? I'm never having kids... I get anxious enough when my dog doesn't come inside after the first time I call him :-?

I'm the same way with my dogs... and our yard is completely fenced in. First kid is on the way so this is good info. for me. Always have a just in case meeting place.
 

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This drives home the importance of having "the plan" when you ski with kids. My youngest is six, and I really don't trust that he could navigate his way to our meeting point on his own were he to get separated. Our plan in case of a kid finding himeself alone on the trail is to for him to flag down any skier and ask that person to send a mountain employee to help him get down to our meeting spot. (Our home mountain is Mt Snow, and the meeting spot is the "Discovery Learning Center") The kid is to sit tight until someone in a MT Snow jacket arrives to escort him down.

The other place I always am sure to make "the separation plan" for the kids is when travelling in cities on the subway or train. Once we were in the subway in NYC and, not being used to the speed at which one should exit the car, my son and I got off the car and the door closed in the face of my wife and daughter who were two steps behind us! We had a lot of nightmarish thoughts about what could have happened had it been just one of the kids who wound up trapped on the subway while the rest of us watched the train pull away from the platform.
 

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when skiing at stratton a few weekends ago, my son and I got separated in some glades - I eventually found him further down but for about a minute with no responses to my yells and no visibility due to the trees - I was scared! We have an agreement always to meet back at the bottom of the last ski lift we just got off or at a agreed upon destination. scares the heck out of you.
 

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Very glad to hear all went well !!
WE
Had a similar experience @ Gore 2 yrs ago with my grandson 10 at the time . He too being both an extremely good skier and an honors student was smart enuf to go to the assigned lift and enqiure if anyone had seen his dad or grandpa there

Meanwhile his father and i split up and were skiing in an area we thougth he'd taken while i went to the patrol shack . He was with us to a particular junction then split off on a so called short cut that we'd forgotten . The patrol did a sweep ,in the meantime i had them radio the lift and damn there he was . Up he came on the chair i met him and said lets get a Hot Choclate .

He was unflustered and said gee gramps i thought you guys were smart enuf to know bout the shortcut :D BTW where's dad?

Gotta luiv good kids He kept together OBVIOUSLY we WERE smart enuf NOT to tell his mother or grandma :D
 

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I'm the same way with my dogs... and our yard is completely fenced in. First kid is on the way so this is good info. for me. Always have a just in case meeting place.

So's mine Grassi, but we have wooded areas in our yard they dissapear into sometimes... goes to show how neurotic I am!
 

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So's mine Grassi, but we have wooded areas in our yard they dissapear into sometimes... goes to show how neurotic I am!

It took ME a long time to feel comfy with them off leash. It turns out that they are amazing off leash. It will be interesting to see how I am when the real baby comes.
 

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I hope you didn't tell your wife :wink:

I got lost from my kids (reverse from you) at Stowe last week. Fortunately one of my ski buds was with me and stayed with the kidz. Wasn't supposed to happen, we both had radios, I'd said I'd let him know where the trail came out. Great trail, it comes out at condos. fire up the radio, dead. hmm.... the story had a happy ending....:-o

I never put my kids on a leash. We just put them back in the cage after skiing. :wink:
 
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