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I'll finalize the documentation with HR once I hear his side of the story.

His previous supervisor gave him a verbal warning for the same stunt in March and also documented it and sent me a copy so I'll be including that with my report.

I hate this part of being the boss. All he had to do was call me and tell me he's got two hookers tied up in his basement or any other crazy story and I would have covered for him.

Worst part, is the rest of my team is all wondering what the hell is going on with him. He's increasing their workload


We had somewhat of a similar situation. At the last minute, the person claimed they had a "problem" with something and were trying to get help. What saved us was the fact that we had documented all prior incidents.

Again, it ain't fun. You want to think the person is being honest with you and whatnot. But you realize they should at least be calling...or have someone calling for them with an update. And you also have to condiser those effected by the workload.
 

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We had somewhat of a similar situation. At the last minute, the person claimed they had a "problem" with something and were trying to get help. What saved us was the fact that we had documented all prior incidents.

Again, it ain't fun. You want to think the person is being honest with you and whatnot. But you realize they should at least be calling...or have someone calling for them with an update. And you also have to condiser those effected by the workload.
Well he emailed me this morning asking me where (if at all) he should report to work today. I told him to meet me where my office is. The only question I'm going to ask him is
"Where have you been?" Depending on his answer, we might have a lecture on honesty and a reminder that his job is to reduce my work and stress level, not raise it.

We also offer Psych assistance in case the job stress becomes overwhelming. I've only been a manager for 3 years, but in the 7 years before that, I've never been so stresses I couldn't make it to work with out calling for 3 days. Shit, not even a 3 day hangover...
 

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Well he emailed me this morning asking me where (if at all) he should report to work today. I told him to meet me where my office is. The only question I'm going to ask him is
"Where have you been?" Depending on his answer, we might have a lecture on honesty and a reminder that his job is to reduce my work and stress level, not raise it.

We also offer Psych assistance in case the job stress becomes overwhelming. I've only been a manager for 3 years, but in the 7 years before that, I've never been so stresses I couldn't make it to work with out calling for 3 days. Shit, not even a 3 day hangover...

I hear you Root! Being the boss definately isn't all that alot of people think it is all the time!

Right now I eating a Southbeach Cinnamon Cream bar and going over some of October's producion/collection numbers as I'm waiting for someone to get numb.
 

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Another beautiful sunny 68 degree day and

1.THE damn Golf courses are CLOSED

2. I got a dental appt for a cleaning--- sorry doc BUT not exactly a highlite of my day :D

3.But teh love of my life "The Queen of teh Hop " turns 65 today damn she's beautiful blonde, trim and athletic shape and looks about early 40's -- I am ONE LUCKY sumbitch !!!!!
 

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Took an updated ski quiver pic, gave the kids a snack, communicated with my temporary English degree advisor... but I'm kind of bumming today. Still in pjs. :D
 

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I was so stressed earlier in the week with writing papers and reading assignments, and then with yesterday's excitement with my daughter, that today, I'm just going to take it easy. It's going to be a busy weekend anyway so I may as well take my break today.
 

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Well he emailed me this morning asking me where (if at all) he should report to work today. I told him to meet me where my office is. The only question I'm going to ask him is
"Where have you been?" Depending on his answer, we might have a lecture on honesty and a reminder that his job is to reduce my work and stress level, not raise it.

We also offer Psych assistance in case the job stress becomes overwhelming. I've only been a manager for 3 years, but in the 7 years before that, I've never been so stresses I couldn't make it to work with out calling for 3 days. Shit, not even a 3 day hangover...


When it hits the fan, the last thing you think of is work...or other obligations. On the other hand, when things moderate a bit, one of the first things I do is call wor. It's my you know what on the line and they need to know the low down.

I hope things go well for ya. Yeah, 3 days with no explanation is abit odd.

I just had my 10:00AM snack...a banana.
 

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Sure hope your daughter is better and yeah i know how things can pile up and deadlines are always a cause for concern for PT students who HAVE many outside responsibilities - BUT someday this too will end -- KEEP YOUR GOAL -- on the front burner you can handle these things and SKIING btw is a great mental health break as is your running and biking --

cheers
Warp
 

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2. I got a dental appt for a cleaning--- sorry doc BUT not exactly a highlite of my day :D

Warp, make sure you drink a couple of cups of coffee and munch on either an everything bagel, some Dorrito's, or something with ALOT of garlic in it and DON'T brush before you goto your appt. You hygienist will really like it ;) :eek: :puke: :eek: ;)
 

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Warp, make sure you drink a couple of cups of coffee and munch on either an everything bagel, some Dorrito's, or something with ALOT of garlic in it and DON'T brush before you goto your appt. You hygienist will really like it ;) :eek: :puke: :eek: ;)

Nah Doc i did one better

i made an appt for a " friend who was moving to the area ( THEN -------I showed her a picture of the guy ----IT was YOUR patient from hell the one that had rotten gums one tooth and looked like he was in Deliverance )

ROFLMAO she did too --nuthin like a little dental humor to make things go well
 
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Another beautiful sunny 68 degree day and

1.THE damn Golf courses are CLOSED

2. I got a dental appt for a cleaning--- sorry doc BUT not exactly a highlite of my day :D

3.But teh love of my life "The Queen of teh Hop " turns 65 today damn she's beautiful blonde, trim and athletic shape and looks about early 40's -- I am ONE LUCKY sumbitch !!!!!

Wow no gray or white hair at age 65..amazing..lol..it's crazy that the golf courses are closed..where I live..most of them are open year round..my Dad is playing tomorrow and I might play Sunday..

Anyway..this morning I did a postcard mailing to 400 funeral homes and I just got lunch for the office from a local Italian Restaurant..raining a little bit..this week is really dragging but I'm happy that it's almost the weekend..
 
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o i am my friend. i didn't have any food at the event. i had two slices of pizza at 2 but that was all i had all day.

also found out i have to dj at someone's b day on next wensday. and someone from NKOTB are going to do a proformance. i am soooo thrilled but at least there will be lots of girls.

Hell Yeah New Kids on the Block aremaking a comeback..how long have you been a DJ?
 

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Well hopefully this will be the last post(s) about my wayward employee. I had him report to where my office is, but waited an hour before heading there, so he'd have some time to sit and think. He basically said that he got into a wicked fight with his girlfriend and needed to blow off steam, so pulled a Forest Gump, but instead of running, he just drove and drove and drove his car (good thing gas is cheap right now).

He said he was in too upset to call me or answer the phone. I asked him what would he do if he was in my shoes and his response was I should either write him up or fire him. So we had the talk about how this is not a good time to be doing stupid shit, because we just let another 300 go yesterday, with probably more to come. I also spoke to him about how there needs to be a high level of trust on my team, and if I can't trust him, we're gonna have a problem. I also highly suggested that he apologize to his co-workers for increasing their workload for the past 3 days.

So I've done the write up, and we'll see what happens right now I'm just waiting for HR to sign off on it.
 

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Well hopefully this will be the last post(s) about my wayward employee. I had him report to where my office is, but waited an hour before heading there, so he'd have some time to sit and think. He basically said that he got into a wicked fight with his girlfriend and needed to blow off steam, so pulled a Forest Gump, but instead of running, he just drove and drove and drove his car (good thing gas is cheap right now).

He said he was in too upset to call me or answer the phone. I asked him what would he do if he was in my shoes and his response was I should either write him up or fire him. So we had the talk about how this is not a good time to be doing stupid shit, because we just let another 300 go yesterday, with probably more to come. I also spoke to him about how there needs to be a high level of trust on my team, and if I can't trust him, we're gonna have a problem. I also highly suggested that he apologize to his co-workers for increasing their workload for the past 3 days.

So I've done the write up, and we'll see what happens right now I'm just waiting for HR to sign off on it.

Solid boss work there Root! Earned your beer tonight ;) :beer: (and I bet YOUR stress level is WWWWAAAAYYYY down now :) )
 
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