I am married to B. He is my husband. His family is my family. You assumed that if something happened to him or his family, he would run right to a lawyer.
Hence, you made assumptions about me and my family. Please don't pretend to know what others will do in a hypothetical circumstance; that's not predictable.
I apologize for asserting that your husband would consult a lawyer to determine what his rights are if confronted with such a situation. I didn't intend to offend you or him. I merely was stating my experience over the past 20 years of helping victims many of whom never thought they'd be in a position to need a lawyer to protect them.