DHS is fine. You guys are missing what is going on here. You have a Younger urbanite that loves NYC vs an older much more rural loving guy from NH. Both really love where they are at. DHS takes offence that most of the places he would consider decent eating where shat on by ABC. I would probably react similarly. I have been to NYC a bunch because my company is based there. Of course there is fine dining. But I could never live there. Nope. I guess I fall closer to DHS's ideal than ABC.
Oh, I take no offense to anything ABC says. Lol
She can disagree, debate and argue away until her hearts content. It's both amusing and kinda nutty
She's stated she's semi-retired. I'm mid 40s.