jimk
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Originally Posted by mister moose
Kid focused parents. My grandparents were of the "seen and not heard" approach to kids. Now the program sports drive the parents' schedule all year long. Schools are more rigid on days out of school, some schools fine parents for too many missed days.
Originally Posted by goldsbar
This one. I have a 6 and 9 y/o. Many parents are already deep into the whole "travel" sport thing at these ages. Worst part is many of the kids are just mediocre, but the parents wrap their lives around driving them town-to-town to sit on the bench. This trend needs to change for skiing to become more popular - good luck!
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I'm 20+ years ahead of you guys. This mindset of "fill every spare minute of your kid's lives with activities" was hitting stride back then too. It was the start of helicopter parenting. My parents were from the greatest generation, which followed the "fire and forget" school of parenting I never got into micro-managing my kids extracurricular activities and I used to feel a little guilty about that. I had three dainty daughters and a wife that weren't into sports. My son was fairly athletic, but not into competition. Skiing was the unifier in our leisure time that all in the family could do across the spectrum of mellow to intense. Since I've always been into participatory sports and exercise I was definitely not going to switch to primarily a spectator role if I could help it when it came to spending my time outside my work (cube dwelling pencil pusher).
Kid focused parents. My grandparents were of the "seen and not heard" approach to kids. Now the program sports drive the parents' schedule all year long. Schools are more rigid on days out of school, some schools fine parents for too many missed days.
Originally Posted by goldsbar
This one. I have a 6 and 9 y/o. Many parents are already deep into the whole "travel" sport thing at these ages. Worst part is many of the kids are just mediocre, but the parents wrap their lives around driving them town-to-town to sit on the bench. This trend needs to change for skiing to become more popular - good luck!
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I'm 20+ years ahead of you guys. This mindset of "fill every spare minute of your kid's lives with activities" was hitting stride back then too. It was the start of helicopter parenting. My parents were from the greatest generation, which followed the "fire and forget" school of parenting I never got into micro-managing my kids extracurricular activities and I used to feel a little guilty about that. I had three dainty daughters and a wife that weren't into sports. My son was fairly athletic, but not into competition. Skiing was the unifier in our leisure time that all in the family could do across the spectrum of mellow to intense. Since I've always been into participatory sports and exercise I was definitely not going to switch to primarily a spectator role if I could help it when it came to spending my time outside my work (cube dwelling pencil pusher).
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