Top AZ'rs you've had intimate relations with?

[severine]

Maybe it's just 50% of men who suck?

That's the stat I was given as to how many men...wander.

 

[ga2ski]

I was expecting to read about Roark and Tree_skier. Unfortunately I was awitness to T_S asking Roark for a "pull" and "tug" a couple nights after racing. He claims it had something to do with helping get his GS suit off. That enough info for me.

Speaking of AZ racing, BobR should be talking about his inimate encounters with the snowmaking pipes at Pat's.

 

[Dr Skimeister]

Maybe it's just 50% of men who suck?

That's the stat I was given as to how many men...wander.

No intention in invalidate your feeling, but I personally have known more women that have *wandered* than men.

 

[severine]

No intention in invalidate your feeling, but I personally have known more women that have *wandered* than men.

Interesting because I think the stat on that was 30% ish.

And again, 70% of relationships deal with infidelity. That's what my counselor said, anyway. Stats vary though....

Lovely world we live in these days.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17951664/

http://ezinearticles.com/?Who-Cheats-More:-Men-or-Women&id=440585

http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/infidelity/qt/whymencheat.htm

http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Men-Cheat-vs-Why-Women-Cheat&id=779596

 

[Philpug]

Maybe it's just 50% of men who suck?

To bad the woman's total isn't that high. :lol: Divorces would go down another 50% :ducking:

 

[severine]

To bad the woman's total isn't that high. :lol: Divorces would go down another 50% :ducking:

:roll:

 

[castlerock]

Lovely world we live in these days.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17951664/

It is interesting in the msnbc piece that the fidelity rates appear to be constant, at least over the last 20 years of the survey. Intuition tells me that things like this and sexual orientation are constant, the only thing that varies is how open people are about them.

 

[severine]

Attitudes definitely change. Infidelity is probably no more rampant now than it was 30 years ago. It's just that 30 years ago, people didn't divorce over it... whereas I read a stat this morning that at least 50% of divorces these days are due to infidelity.

Makes you wonder.... are we really meant anthropologically to stay monogamous to one partner for a lifetime? Or do you think that longer life expectancies have led to an increase in divorces because people realize they'll have to spend a longer life with a partner? Or is it maybe that people today are just plain selfish and only care about #1 instead of giving and taking like you would in a mature relationship?

I'm really interested in views on this... maybe I should make a new thread?

 

[castlerock]

This can quickly devolve into the Mars vs. Venus idea. But I do believe that the anthropological motivations are balanced differently in men and women. But it is a balance of motivations, not a separation of them.

 

[severine]

Started a new thread in Misc..... I really am interested in views on this.

 

[deadheadskier]

deleted and moved to the appropriate thread

 

[GrilledSteezeSandwich]

Attitudes definitely change. Infidelity is probably no more rampant now than it was 30 years ago. It's just that 30 years ago, people didn't divorce over it... whereas I read a stat this morning that at least 50% of divorces these days are due to infidelity.

Makes you wonder.... are we really meant anthropologically to stay monogamous to one partner for a lifetime? Or do you think that longer life expectancies have led to an increase in divorces because people realize they'll have to spend a longer life with a partner? Or is it maybe that people today are just plain selfish and only care about #1 instead of giving and taking like you would in a mature relationship?

I'm really interested in views on this... maybe I should make a new thread?

The divorce rate has stayed constant ever since the 80s..

 

[severine]

The divorce rate has stayed constant ever since the 80s..

Not the divorce rate itself (because that, I believe, is about 50% for 1st marriages, and 60-65% for 2nd marriages). What I stated was that 50% OF divorces are due to infidelity. Was it the same 30 years ago? Interesting stat... and I'll save the rest of this for the other thread.

 

[tree_skier]

I was expecting to read about Roark and Tree_skier. Unfortunately I was awitness to T_S asking Roark for a "pull" and "tug" a couple nights after racing. He claims it had something to do with helping get his GS suit off. That enough info for me.

Speaking of AZ racing, BobR should be talking about his inimate encounters with the snowmaking pipes at Pat's.

Roark is always good for a pull or tug, never thought to ask for a yank though.

BobR's intimate encounter with the pipes had him seeing stars although he in the morning he wished he had used protection.

 

[dmc]

"Eat - Drink and remarry"