Are you a parent? If not, check what you think you know at the door.
If you are a parent, at some very basic level I agree with you a little bit. It might be nice if my wife was able to stay home full time with the kids......maybe. My wife's personality is such that we both feel she needs to maintain an "adult identity" so she works four days a week. Plus it does help a bit financially. And yes, my kids are in day care/preschool those four days a week. They just so happen to be very healthy, polite, smart and well adjusted kids.
In fact, I just met with my 5 year old's teacher today. She's technically in a kindergarten curriculum, despite the fact that she is too young to start in the public school's first grade program in September. Her teacher indicates that at every level she is ready for it though. Probably one of the kindest souls on the planet too. Her little sister is following a very similar, perhaps even more accelerated path.
So, yeah, perhaps kids should be home with mom that first year or year and a half, but there are some pretty obvious benefits to day care/preschool too. So, again, what is your parenting experience?
I don't know jack about kids other than I can't live my lifestyle and afford to have them. My parents think I live a selfish lifestyle by always doing what I want but I totally disagree (can't feed em' don't breed em').
I'm not gonna pretend to know all about your world, just stating that i feel so many have the whole idea of needs and wants twisted. when was the last time you met someone without cable t.v. or a cell phone? These things that make our life "better" seem to keep piling up over the years, monthly bills grow, and we are even more slaves to our jobs. Every generation seems to work a little more to have these things and every generation seems to have less time for children. This is a very broad generalization of course.
Edit-you know if I had kids I probably would send them off to preschool or whatever a couple days a week just to socialize them with other kids, I'm sure that's important. I have always had dogs, children seem pretty much like dogs in so many ways-to me they are the same.
If you don't have a dog then you wouldn't know. lol!
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