I get that entirely. This is what I'm wondering. That and the 14 hour round-trip drive.
Assuming from the 14 hour round trip you are looking Stowe or north I would not even consider making that long drive for skiing this weekend. I've looked as far north as Tremblant and MSA and they got the same rain and warmth we had here. Most of the natural terrain is closed up there too.
Closer is better if you choose to ski this weekend.